Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” Ephesians 4:32
A few devotions ago I talked about the second half of this verse (forgiveness), but today I would like to cover the first half, “Be kind and compassionate to one another.” Kindness seems to be a rare commodity now-a-days. Life is moving so fast, that taking time for little kindnesses seems too much of a diversion. But kindness is one of the most important ingredients for good gospel-giving and since sharing the good
news is one of our primary purposes in life, kindness, too, should be an important part of our lives.
Kindness is not natural to most of us. We have to intentionally set out to make it part of our day. Someone told me once that if a kind act does not come naturally, it does not “count,” but I find that pretty restrictive. Which is better- the person who sees the little old lady pushing a heavy cart and without
thinking goes over to help her or the person who sees her, starts to go past, catches himself and goes back to help. Both are equal. The act was the important part. The act was meaningful to the little old lady whether it was natural or thought out.
In Colossians we read, “So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.” (Colossians 3:12) The phase “put on” indicates an intentional act, just like putting on our coat when the weather is cold. We see it is cold and we reach for our coat. God asks us to put on the coat of kindness every day. We should wear it at all times so that it becomes a part of us. We should feel naked without our mantle of kindness on. Eventually, it will become more natural to us, and it will become our first instinct rather than our last.
We might try to use the “I don’t have the gift” excuse to avoid kindess, but that is a real stretch. KIndness is not a special gift given to only a few. Galatians 5:22-23 says,”But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.” Notice that is says fruit, not fruits. If these were plural, we might feel inclined to pick and choose which ones we might want to illustrate in our lives. We might say that we have the gift of love but not self-control. But each of the things above are what we possess if we possess the Holy Spirit. We would be hard-pressed to use the excuse that we are not kind because we don’t have the gift of kindness. We all have
been given the gift of kindness; it is part of the fruit of the spirit.
There is a wonderful video that I showed the grandkids during one of the Nana Camp’s when we had all the grandkids with us. It was about a young boy who lost his father and one day a stranger came up along side of the boy while he was walking to school. They began to talk and every morning the man would walk alongside the boy. They talked and shared and built an incredible relationship. Eventually the boy
graduated and soon after found out the man had died and he returned for his funeral. It was there, while talking to the man’s wife that he found out that the man was not on his way to work every morning like he had hinted, but that his work was the opposite way. The boy ask the wife why he had done that, walked many blocks out of way, every day for many years and she said, “when you lost your father, he knew you needed a friend and once you had one, he didn’t want to take it away.” That is kindness. The intentional, considerate, care for another in a time of need.
When I taught at Douglas we had a nationally renowned special education program. Students in the class were the kindest young people in our school. They gave daily lessons on hugging, kind words, and trust. When they extended a kind hand, it never had any ulterior motives. It was just a kind hand. Simply, they treated people with love and kindness. Our kindnesses should be without evil motives, and should be out of love and concern for others. Kindness is an unselfish demonstration of concern. It is doing something for someone who will never be able to pay us back.


It is the good news that we can once more be truly human. No longer are we, like Adam, evicted from God’s presence and under his wrath. The garden—the kingdom—has been regained with a plus. It is the good news that we are sons of the second Adam and have been remade—not just considered to be remade, but new creatures. 2 Corinthians 5:17-18 says “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” We have been actually remade—not fully … yet—but actually, truly. We’ve been re-born, made new, in a word, regenerated.









Earlier this week, an entire underground church in Vietnam was raided and people were hauled off.
We too, if we are believers, have seen the risen Christ.
One of the key forerunners of the Reformation was Bohemian John Hus. He devoted himself to Scripture and taught that Christ, not the Pope, is Head of the Church. He was convicted of heresy and sentenced to be burned at the stake unless he recanted. But he would not and on the day of his martyrdom he said: “God is my witness that the evidence against me is false.? In the truth of the gospel I have written, taught, and preached, today I will gladly die.? As the crackling flames consumed him, he joyfully sang a hymn.
for Christ, actually shared Christ, actually centered on Christ- this world would radically change. Let’s draw a circle, jump inside, and ask God to start the change inside that circle. Then we can start reaching outward. The apostles did not try to change Judea, Samaria, and the outer most parts of the world until they were changed inside.





