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“The integrity of the upright shall guide them: but the perverseness of transgressors shall destroy them.” Proverbs 11:3

Today we live in a society that cares little about how we do things as opposed to what our results are. There seems to be little concern about what tactics get us to the top as long as we get to the top. Integrity can often get lost in the journey to reach our goals and sadly few seem to be bothered by that. The old idea that “it matters little who wins or loses, but how they play the game” has become a saying of derision and mockery.

Today’s verse tells us that playing the game, living our lives, with integrity is important. In fact, if we don’t, the result will be destruction. Our lack of integrity may seem to be working and “getting us to the top,” but in the long run it will fail us. A wise man once said, “Be careful who you hurt on the way up the ladder, because you are sure to meet them all again on your way down.”

There are many stories which illustrate the value of integrity, but here are just a couple I am familiar with. An aging king woke up one day to the realization that he had no male in the royal family to take his place. He decided he would adopt a son who could then take his place. He knew that such an adopted son must be extraordinary, so he launched a competition in his kingdom, open to all boys. After a series of tests, only the ten most intelligent and physical boys were left in the competition.

Since the kingdom depended solely on agriculture, the king gave corn seed to each boy. The boys had three weeks to cultivate it and at the end of the time whoever showed the best cultivating would be king. The boys all rushed home, planted their seeds in pots and started caring for their plants.

One boy in particular was very disappointed. He did everything he should, even praying over his corn day and night, but his seed would just not grow. Many of his friends advised him to go and buy a seed from the market and plant that because no one could tell one seed from another. The boys parents, however, had always taught him to do what was right and they reminded him that if the king wanted them to use their own seeds, he would have told them that. His parents told him that not all are destined to a throne, and it is better to not receive than to receive through deception.

The big day came and it was obvious that everyone had had great success with their seeds except for our one young boy. The king began making his way down the line while asking each boy, ‘Is this what came out of the seed I gave you?’ Each boy responded, ‘Yes, your majesty.’ And the king would nod and move down the line.

The king finally got to the last boy in the line-up who was shaking with fear. The king looked at the empty pot and said, “What did you do with the seed I gave you?’ The boy answered, “I planted it and cared for it diligently, your majesty, but I could not get it to grow.” The boy began to cry as the crowd booed and mocked him.

The king raised his hand, turned to the crowd and said, “My people behold your next king.” The stunned crowd listened as he continued. “I gave these boys boiled seeds. This test was not for cultivating corn, almost all can do that. It was the test of character; a test of integrity. It was the ultimate test. To be a true king, he must place truth above all things. Only this boy passed the test. A boiled seed cannot sprout. Never!!”

We live in a society obsessed with success at any cost. Sports figures shorten their lives with illegal substances just to increase their temporary fame. Business people cut ethical corners to work their way to the top. Students have someone else do their work to better their grades. Does anyone care? Yes, God does and those who have integrity do as well. For all the world’s flaws we have hundreds of stories that are passed down through the years of people who have shown great integrity and are revered for it.

Bobby Jones, one of the greatest golfers of all time, once cost himself a championship by admitting that his ball moved a bit when he removed a piece of grass next to his ball, an automatic one stroke penalty. No one else saw it and even argued against it because they did not see it move. Even the tournament director said he did not notice it. But Bobby was adamant, took his penalty, and lost the tournament by one stroke. Afterwards, when the story made headlines, Bobby said, “What is the big deal, to congratulate me for this, is like congratulating me for not robbing a bank. It was what had to be done.”

Bobby Jone’s action lives larger than almost any other golf story from the past. Why? because as much as society says the end justifies the means, it still honors honesty. In the long run, failure often is often an opportunity for us to show the world that the integrity God speaks of is still alive today. Doing right, for right’s sake, is always right.

“Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.” Matthew 5:48

When I was young and playing softball with my brother Gary, he went through a hitting slump very uncharacteristic for him. After he tried changing bats and everything about his swing, I suggested that maybe he should have his eyes checked. He pooh-poohed the idea saying that his vision was great and that couldn’t be it. After a bit, however, he did go in and was amazed at the difference in his eyesight when the doctor flipped the different lenses into place. He could actually see the chart!

Well, my brother found out that he did have a problem, but it took some close examination to determine it. We can very easily find ourselves thinking we are in a good place with The Lord when just the opposite is true.

My brother didn’t suspect that his eyes were the problem because he assumed that what he was seeing was what everyone else was seeing. Until he got a distinct contrast, until he saw what he should be seeing, he was unaware of his problem.

We might think we haven’t done much wrong in a long time and so we are probably doing really good with God. We might look around and think we are doing much better in our Christian walk than many, so we’re fine. We might pray before meals, wear a Christian shirt once in awhile, and even go to church sometimes. We get to thinking we’re in a good place — a safe place — home free. What finally got my brother into the doctor was not how he stacked up against others, but how he stacked up against himself. He really did not compare himself to others (he was still better than most), but he compared himself to where he should be, could be, and used to be. One of the most powerful weapons satan wields is wrapped up in the word “tomorrow.” We will start reading the Word “tomorrow.” We will get that prayer life going “tomorrow.” We will do that self-examination “tomorrow.” If Gary would have always put that exam off until “tomorrow” he would have never found out there was a problem!

A safe place can be a dangerous place! It lulls us into thinking that all is well and well it will always be. One of satan’s greatest tools is to get us to think that what we did yesterday is good enough for tomorrow. The reality is that we attribute all contentment to God, but sometimes Satan wants us to be content in where we are, as well. He wants us to compare ourselves to others and feel we’ve arrived! We can always find those who are messed up more than we are, but that doesn’t mean we are not messed up! God wants us to continually strive to be more like Him! (see the verse above) It is only when we come to a place of humbly looking at ourselves and asking us the tough question, “Am I all God wants me to be” that we will begin to see what God wants us to be.

We need to do a daily “I-examine.” We cannot be satisfied with seeing the world and everything we do out of focus. We need to ask if we are seeing what could be and should be in our Christian walk. We need not compare ourselves to others, but strive for God’s perfection today! When Gary got is his eyes “fixed” he not only made himself better, but he made the others around him better as well. We need to examine ourselves not just for our own sake, but for the sake of those around us who are dependent on us and need us to be all we can be. To be less than what we should be, is less than what we need to be, if we really want to live for Christ.

“Do you not know that all the runners in a stadium compete, but only one receives the prize? So run to win. Each competitor must exercise self-control in everything. They do it to receive a perishable crown, but we an imperishable one. So I do not run uncertainly or box like one who hits only air. Instead I subdue my body and make it my slave, so that after preaching to others I myself will not be disqualified.”   1 Corinthians 9:24-27

In these verses Paul compares the Christian with an athlete in competition. He talks about our discipline, our effort, and our integrity. These are good verses for us to keep in mind because today our opponents are many. Besides battling against our own flesh and the principalities and powers, we battle against a world that has turned right upside down and is changing the rules of morality to suit a disintegrating world.

Christianity is a faith of common sense. As we stray further and further from Christian principles we also leave common sense further and further behind. I find it amazing that groups that will close entire sections of a forest down for the tiniest of creatures can support the continual killing of the tiniest of humans. Unfortunately, most Christian principles are recognized by everyone as Christian principles. Some are so against Christianity that they must oppose everything about Christianity to prove their dismissal of the faith. Consequently, they must reject many of the common sense principles that Christianity brings to this world. Much of the world is going along with this craziness, but every day you will hear people saying, “where is people’s common sense?” Sadly, it is disintegrating by the same proportions that people reject the Biblical world perspective

I read a story about an unusual happening in the 1990’s in an NCAA Division II national championship cross-country race in California. A runner named Mike Delvaco and 127 of the states best runners were competing on 10,000 meter course to see “who would win the prize.” About three miles into the race, Delvaco was somewhere in the middle of the pack, when he realized that the runners had made a wrong turn. So he yelled out, “You’re going the wrong way,” but they didn’t listen. Only 4 others followed Mike when he turned in the right direction…and suddenly, he found himself in the lead. He must have had some doubt when the field dropped from 128 to 5, but he stayed on course.

However, that lasted only about a mile. Mike and the runners who followed him were soon reunited with the larger pack who, having gone the wrong way, actually shaved about a half a mile off the course. The shortcut of the many put them ahead of the small band of runners that took the correct path. This was bad enough for Mike, but the final blow came when, because so many of the runners had gone the wrong way, the officials changed the official course route to accommodate their error. So when Mike Delcavo finally crossed the finish line, he was number 103 overall. His right action was ignored and because so many went the wrong way they were rewarded with a shorter race. At the end of the race, one of Delcavo’s competitors “thought it was funny that he went the right way.”

Isn’t that a telling statement? In our mixed up world, when so many are wrong, wrong becomes right. Instead of the world keeping a standard of acceptable behavior, it changes what acceptable behavior is. But although the world changes “the course” to accommodate itself, God does not. He know the course; He made the course; and He expects us to run the course as marked. Numbers do not influence God. No matter how many go astray, he does not accept the majority as a sign of rightness. In Noah’s day God did not change his plan for the sake of the majority.

It takes courage and conviction to follow wholeheartedly after God instead of the rest of the world. Sometimes it can get lonely running alone, and we may be wondering where the others are going. Sometimes we will be heckled by the crowd while we are going the right way, maybe even laughed at by others in the race. And ultimately, the “race officials” may reward others for bad turns. But we must remain on God’s course. We must run with discipline, doing our best, staying on course, and when the race is over and we have finished the course, may He who is the true judge say to us, “Well done, good and faithful servant!”

“This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us.”  (1 John 5:14)

Last week I wrote about how many of us struggle in our prayer life.  I went on to mention two types of praying that I think could be helpful for those who are hoping to have more consistent prayer lives.  I don’t think any “system” is the right one, nor do I think that these ideas are unique or necessarily for everyone.  I am just sharing what I think might work for some and part of that some might be you.

First of all, I think that most of the information we receive on prayer emphasizes organizing when it should probably emphasize agonizing.  Prayer, no matter how well organized will not be as effective if we don’t pray from a softened heart.  I think of the short, wonderful, heart-breaking, heart-felt prayer of Christ on the cross that was born of agony, “Father, forgive them for they know not what they do.”  Not so much grace in so few words has ever been uttered.  Our concern for those around us should fill our hearts with a pain that only God can heal.  When we hurt for others, that hurt can only be relieved by our prayers for others. When we pray from pain our prayers will be real and no “system” is better than that.  With that in mind, there may be some things that we can do that will clear the table from encumbrances so that our prayers can come from the heart rather than the head.

A little history might be in order here.  I tend to organize (which might surprise those who have visited my garage). I am a list maker.  From my introduction to Christ in my early twenties to present day, I like to write down requests and try to refer to them often. Let me tell you how that obsession with listing has, in some ways, hurt my prayer life.  My routine has always been an early morning one.  I try to divide my list as I am sure many do, some prayers are daily, some every other day, some weekly, etc.  But even doing it this way, daily prayers (when you include national and global prayers), number close to fifty or more every day.  (For instance, I have nineteen immediate family members and another sixty or so extended family members on my list.)  I have another one hundred or so from our church, fifty from work, and multitudes of others from vagrants to presidents. Actually, when we look around us, there is probably no one that does not need prayer- so mine is a short list.

Here lies the problem.  With so many people, situations, needs, praises, and the like, prayer time can become mechanical.  Going through a list is time consuming and can become routine.  We can begin to pray the same things for the same people without really thinking of what we are saying.  Worse yet, we look at the almost impossible list and realize we need over an hour to make a dent, so if we don’t have that hour, we drop the whole thing.  The task looks overwhelming, so we surrender to avoidance.  In an attempt to pray for all things, we pray for no things.  We get discouraged and our prayer life suffers.  I have gone through all these struggles over the past years.  Because of these struggles I have begun to embrace the old adage, “Less is more.”  But it has not been an easy road.

My dilemma seemed overwhelming.  I did not feel like shorting the people who needed prayer, but I also did not want to bite off more than I could chew and choke on prayerlessness.  Too often I felt the guilt of hearing an update on someone I should have been praying for, but didn’t.  I always said a prayer of thankfulness for those who were faithful and praying in my stead, but it didn’t assuage the guilt.  I needed to find a satisfying middle ground between my need to list multitudes of requests and the ability to find time to discuss those requests with God.  I wanted a Spirit-filled prayer time that allowed me to intercede for others.  There had to be a way!

First of all, I had to commit to the necessity of prayer.  I think we often do not pray because we wonder if prayer really works.  If God is Sovereign and His will will be done, why pray?  I got over that hurdle theologically quite awhile back, but I got over it logically as well.  If God tells us that He is sovereign and if He also tells us we have free will, both of those must be true.  So even though God is in control, He is still moved by our prayers.  How can the mighty immoveable God of the universe be moved by the prayers of puny man?  I don’t know  how God reconciles these seemingly contradictory statements, but I know He does.  God would not call us to do something that was meaningless, so His call for our prayers must have meaning.

In Jeremiah we read, “Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you.”  (Jeremiah 29:12)  God is truth and would not say this if it was not true.  Our first step in a strong prayer life is faith in who God is.  Prayer is not important because of who we are and what we say, but because of who God is and what He says.

Today I did not give any helpful hints, I will begin that next week when I talk about something that has radically changed many people’s prayer lives.  Today’s emphasis is this: we need to believe prayer is important or we won’t find it important to pray.

Praying is hard. It probably shouldn’t be, but it is. Our minds wander, we grow restless, we battle fatigue, but why? We have the opportunity to go to the great Creator of the universe to lay out our deepest desires, hurts, questions, and praises, yet we sometimes find ourselves in a battle to do what should be wonderful. Why?

For one thing, Satan hates prayer. If he can bring any distractions to bear on us during our time of prayer he will. He really doesn’t care about most of our other activities. Reading a book, fishing, working, watching TV and a myriad of other daily dealings don’t concern him. As long as we are not praying, he is satisfied. That may partly explain why we have an easier time concentrating on facebook than God’s face.

Our own flesh makes the prayer life more challenging. In our flesh we are not inclined toward God. Righteousness is not natural for us. There is none righteous, no not one. Just like a person must tend a garden, but weeds grow prolifically on their own, we must tend our spiritual lives. Sin grows without much watering. In our flesh prayer is not our first resort (unless a grenade just rolled into our foxhole), but we more naturally work our way through a multitude of worldly solutions until we are eventually brought back to God.

So how can we pray effectively? There must be a way or God would not have called us to do it. George Mueller was one of the greatest pray-ers of all time. He cared for thousands of orphans during his lifetime and never once sent out a request of monies other than to God Himself. His diary entries of answered prayer are phenomenal. From the ordinary to extraordinary, God’s grace was illustrated in Mueller’s life on a daily basis. His way of praying (which he discovered during his ministry) reflects the kinds of prayer that is called for in the Word. It is truly Holy Spirit led.

I recently have read books and watched some videos on the idea of praying the Bible. I have to say, it works. If our minds our going to wander naturally, we need to train our minds to wander with a purpose. Praying the Bible allows the Holy Spirit to bring to mind those prayer requests that need our attention. One concern that I think all pray-ers have is the dilemma of list praying. We have a prayer list and we pray the list faithfully, but it seems too routine, too sterile. Unfortunately, if we pray without a list, we miss important prayers and realize after a week that we haven’t brought Auntie Em’s heart condition before the Lord one time.

So how do we remember things but yet not become mechanical in our prayer time. Well, I think there is a way to use lists effectively but also to leave the lists aside for certain types of prayer. I think one of our problems is that we box our prayer time in and if it is not a certain way at a certain time then we tend set things aside. In other words, if we can’t do it “right” we won’t do it at all. There has to be a better way.

Let’s divide our prayer time into two types- Bible prayer and Idle prayer. Let me explain the difference and then detail them a little more over the next few days. Bible prayer is when we can have a Bible in front of us, without distraction, such as our daily quiet time in the morning or evening. Idle prayer is prayer that we do when we cannot read our Bible because we are walking, driving, working out, fishing or in any other place where detailed reading would not be logical or advisable. Idle prayer does not mean we are idle in the pure sense, but idle or away from the Bible. In short, Bible prayer is when we can read our Bible along with prayer, and idle prayer is when we find ourselves without access to our Bible. Really, when we think about it, these two times cover all times. Is there any place or any time we cannot think?  Not really. So there is there any place or any time that we cannot pray?  Not really.

Prayer is something that we can do any time. They say there is no prayer in school, but who can really prevent that? A school might be able to prevent folding hands, closing eyes, and even dropping a head before a meal, but that is not prayer, those are just common indicators that a prayer is happening. Indicators are not prayer. Prayer is an inside thing. There is a story about a child who was told to stand in the corner and he said he wanted to sit. After a brief argument with his mother, he went to stand in the corner. Standing with his face to the corner he said to his mom, “I might be standing on the outside, but I am sitting on the inside.” How true. No one can make us pray (except maybe a bad taxi driver) or keep us from praying. Our thoughts and prayers are our own and no one can prevent them.

In the next couple of days, I am going to tell you more about these two types of prayer and tell you how I think we can improve our prayer life dramatically.

Have a wonderful day.