“It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man.” Psalm 118:8
I was looking through some of my past journaling and came across an entry from a few years back when the entire family went to Dorena Lake for a weekend of visiting, fishing, swimming, eating, laughing and sleeping. It seemed like just yesterday that we were doing the same thing (smaller group) with Chris, Sandi, Jon, and Lisa at the same age as some of the grandkids. What’s going on and who took time and shortened it? The thing that strikes me, however, is not just how fast time flies, but what a wonder it is to experience God’s beautiful creation with the family God has blessed me with. It helps me to remember that as I make any decision, whether small or large, I shouldn’t put my confidence in other people but put my trust in God, who knows every weekend we will experience before it ever happens.
Even when we look around at all that God has done and is doing, it is still very tempting to put our confidence in man. Whether it be doctor who is treating our ailments, the lawyer who is giving us advice, the employer who is helping shape our future, the PHD who is telling us the right way to raise kids, or the butcher, baker, and candlestick maker who are… well, you know. We have a tendency, by nature, to run to the “experts” with our questions and problems. That in itself is not bad because God gave man
knowledge and expects us to use it for the betterment of others. The problem starts when we rely totally on man and leave God out of the picture. That elevates man above God and that is dangerous.
There is a short poem penned by that prolific writer, anonymous, that says it well:
Trust Him when dark doubts assail thee, Trust Him when thy strength is small,
Trust Him when to simply trust Him. Seems the hardest thing of all.
Trust Him, He is ever faithful, Trust Him, for his will is best,
Trust Him, for the heart of Jesus Is the only place of rest.
God tells us that He should not be our very last resort, but our first consort. We should even consult with Him about who we should consult with! Before we check out what the experts say about the things we
face, we should check out what God’s word says. Although the Word will not always give us specifics (“Take the job at the small convenience store.” Leviticus 7:11) it will teach about the principles that should guide our lives, and thus help us to make the right decisions in our lives.
It does not mean we are not supposed to tap into the knowledge of those who understand current medicine, law, business, or kids, but we must never put our confidence in the imperfect advice of man before the perfect knowledge of God. Even when consulting with the greatest of intellects of our time (like some of our own family members!) all decisions should be filtered through God before acting on the advice of others.
There is a story about old Uncle Oscar was apprehensive about his first airplane ride. His friends, eager to hear how it went, asked if he enjoyed the flight. “Well,” commented Uncle
Oscar, “it wasn’t as bad as I thought it might be, but I’ll tell you this. I never did put all my weight down!” Doesn’t that sound like us at times? We say that trust in God, but we don’t really put our weight down. God finds Himself far down the line in our list of experts. We consult with Him when many other options run out.
It is better — every time, in every situation — to trust in the Lord and to inquire prayerfully for His direction. Most of the time this will be revealed to us in His Word, but He is certainly capable of making His desires known through the words of others. The key to having God as our chief consultant is getting to know Him better. We do that through reading the Word, prayer, and fellowshipping with mature Christians. We need to make an appointment today to let God give us the best direction for our lives. Anyone else just won’t do.

The two verses above seem to be in conflict with each other, but how can that be?
When we are serving God there are times when we feel like the burden he has placed on us is more than we can bear. Like a runner we ‘hit the wall’ and feel we can’t carry on. But when we take a fresh look at what we are aiming for, and remember the finish line and the rewards that wait there, we somehow manage to push through. We may ‘feel the burn’ but we know we are gaining ground and the burden no longer seems as impossible as it first did.
The key is that in everything we do we need to focus on Jesus. Even the mundane daily tasks need to be seen as serving him. That is how His yoke becomes light.
to the pilot house and saw the steer man, at his post holding the wheel unwaveringly, and inch by inch, turning the ship out, once more, to sea. The pilot saw the watcher and smiled. Then, the daring passenger went below and gave out a note of cheer: “I have seen the face of the pilot, and he smiled. All is well.”
couldn’t we be grateful for having the loved one in our lives to begin with? As we pray for revival in our country, in our church, and in our homes, couldn’t we thank God for the promise that he will be found by those who seek him?
A man had a habit of grumbling at the food his wife placed before him at family meals. Then he would ask the blessing. One day after his usual combination complaint-prayer, his little girl asked, “Daddy, does God hear us when we pray?”
Sometimes it is good during our difficulties to make a “thankful sandwich” when we pray.
What a great promise we have here.
it will get filled on its own, sometimes with something just as bad.
God knows that if we are in mourning, that mourning cannot be just taken away- it must be replaced with something.
She was the joy of her life. The mother was now alone and home was not “home” anymore. Meyer gave her wise counsel. “When you get home and put the key in the door,” he said, “say aloud, ‘Jesus, I know You are here!’ and be ready to greet Him directly when you open the door. And as you light the fire tell Him what has happened during the day; if anybody has been kind, tell Him; if anybody has been unkind, tell Him, just as you would have told your daughter. At night stretch out your hand in the darkness and say, ‘Jesus, I know You are here!'” Months later, Meyer was back in that neighborhood and met the woman again, but he did not recognize her. Her face radiated joy instead of announcing misery. “I did as you told me,” she said, “and it has made all the difference in my life, and now I feel I know Him.” This woman had replaced the loss of a daughter with the love of the Father.
surrounded by it, but God can remove that and replace it with something good. Probably not immediately, but it will happen. He might do that through His Word, an encouraging song from the radio, or even a phone call from a friend.
Our sorrows, disappointments, tragedies and failures are very real — but they are also “raw material” for a transformation that God will accomplish in us if we allow Him to.